Here are some rules every teen should use when starting the
dating process. It really shouldn’t be called dating, it should be referred to
like as “friending.” A process when
teens are starting to explore more intense friendships with the opposite sex.
~Date in groups! As a teenager you don’t need to
have a serious relationship. This could become too complicated. You will have more than enough time for that.
~When the opposite sex is in the house with you,
keep all doors OPEN. No dating behind closed doors.
~Talk to a parent (preferably) or responsible
adult about the person you like and any questions you have about
dating. Don’t ask your friends, they don’t
know. This is how bad information gets passed around.
~Dress approximately. It’s great being fashionably
stylish, but showing too much skin and being too provocative can cause the
opposite sex to develop an impression that you might not want them to have of
you.
~NO SEX. You’re too young. Your body is your Temple. No one deserves to explore it before you do. Get to know yourself and understand your worth. You are uniquely special, so embrace that no matter who has told you differently or how many disappointments you may have faced.
Dr. Dee Carter March 13, 2013