Dating Rules to Practice for Teenagers

Here are some rules every teen should use when starting the dating process. It really shouldn’t be called dating, it should be referred to like as “friending.”  A process when teens are starting to explore more intense friendships with the opposite sex.

~Date in groups! As a teenager you don’t need to have a serious relationship. This could  become too complicated.  You will have more than enough time for that. 

~When the opposite sex is in the house with you, keep all doors OPEN. No dating behind closed doors.

~Talk to a parent (preferably) or responsible adult about the person you like and any questions you have about dating.  Don’t ask your friends, they don’t know. This is how bad information gets passed around.

 ~Always have a designated driver. Don’t allow your friends to drive under the influence of any mind altering substance. Your life may depend on this rule.

~Dress approximately. It’s great being fashionably stylish, but showing too much skin and being too provocative can cause the opposite sex to develop an impression that you might not want them to have of you.

 ~NO SEX.  You’re too young. Your body is your Temple. No one deserves to explore it before you do. Get to know yourself and understand your worth. You are uniquely special, so embrace that no matter who has told you differently or how many disappointments you may have faced.

 If you have other positive suggestions or comments, please post them.

 

Dr. Dee Carter            March 13, 2013